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Online dating....

Discussion in 'Off-Topic' started by Wyrix, Jun 17, 2015.

  1. Salvira Ava

    Salvira Ava Well-Known Member

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    @Kimesato
    It's off topic, no further replies regarding the matter. Mwahaah /poof/
     
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  2. Sky

    Sky Well-Known Member

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    Ok have fun :)
     
  3. Kimesato

    Kimesato Elite Member Elite Member

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    Totally right off topic.
    Back on topic.
    We all need that online dating hype and feeling from time to time definetely.
     
  4. Skardale

    Skardale Well-Known Member

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    Where do we find it rumours for marriage(and pvp) other then players? Would like to be kept up to date on these things.
     
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    -.-
     
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    It just depends on the looks of your character. I see SOME female characters wearing xstal armor. which brings them the attention. ( KAWAII)
     
  7. Orelliou

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    Hahahaahahahhaha hahahhaa woooow... Your just unlucky... But maybe it's cause guys... Are more likely to be into games? And since its on a cell phone... The fishing net of guys Toram samples from the world is larger than most because of its mobility... And... Since this game fits better with socially awkward introverted people... The likelihood that you would meet creepy people on is kinda high... Now that I think about it.... Maybe not unlucky.. But.. ... ...well... Maybe... I'm sure women feel this way when they play mmos.
     
  8. Selenite

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    Wow.

    I was like "whut...?" when I read the title of this thread and then read the entire thread (bad habit from super forum days at Gaia) and now I'm very unlitterally lmao (I would, but I don't want to wake my boyfriend up). I think my social anxieties leak through my phone somehow though, because even playing as a girl in Runescape back in the day, in Fable (2&3) multiplayer on xbox, and here, I have never been hit on. Maybe my characters are ugly?

    The only place that I was hit on was on Gaia while I was role playing. Not the dirty stuff, but thing like :

    "Oh were all at boarding school, ADVENTURES AHOY"

    "Oh were all on a space ship, let's kill things and be space pirates/be the rebellion and take down the empire"

    " Oh I'm an OC and I'm in the Inuyasha world, let's all be friends and KILL NARAKU GRR!"

    There was one time when I was like 14 (Oh Holy Christmas, 10 years ago T-T) though that I really got into roleplaying with this one guy and we went to the PMs, but I was the one who got all creepy and personal. Like I kept putting my 14 year old self out there thinking, "Yeah this is how relationships work, right?" and the guys backed out and never spoke to me again. He probably thought I was this pedophile policeman trying to catch a predator but I just wanted to know more about and tell more about myself to this guy's who I thought made an amazing character and story. I used to have all my Gaia stuff saved and would look back and be like "Jesus had to protect my ass at a very young age, thank god for one man's common sense!"

    I was actually like distraught over his dissaperance for a few months until I had my first IRL crush and pulled back from the online world and fell more into the "Yeah, I love that band, I'd love to hear your cover of their song!!" I still roleplayed and played video games, but I kept my IRL separate and didn't have any romance online after that. I felt like I was cheating on the people I had crushes on.

    PS: yeah I was single for a very long time IRL until I matured much more then just keeping romance off the internet.
     
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  9. Kimesato

    Kimesato Elite Member Elite Member

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    You hit the spot Selenite ;).
     
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  10. Cryous

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    She can hit my spots anytime.
    hehe That's not being creepy, right?

    Does being a senpai count as a relationship? I've had some cute kouhais. lol
     
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  11. Kimesato

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    As this thread was before, any online dating Im all in ;), its just online fun.
     
  12. Selenite

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    Holy crap, god forbid I start saying Senpai, my friends and family already think I'm a weeabo (spell check) as it is! All I need is to fuel that fire, lmao.

    Though I won't lie, that's probably my fault for saying "I'm in your care all the time". It started out as a cutesy way to be different, and now it's become a bad habit.

    I think the difference in thinking something is creepy or not is by the person receiving said creepiness and just disregarding it as a joke (even if it wasnt). Because if you don't feed into it the wrong way, what is the absolute worst thing that can happen?

    I do not pride myself in being a big strong girl but as a woman working in a city I am allowed to have Mace in my purse, and as a voulenteer EMT I'm allowed to carry around a knife. If I don't manage to make it away from the super creepers I can at least know they'll really hate me (because they'll be at least one less something when im done, even if its a chunck of hair and scalp) before I'm tortured and such.
     
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    I think the difference between creep and non creep has to do with the personality or the parties involved as well the intimacy already established. If some random girl starts hitting on me(a guy even, lol) I'll take it as a joke because I'm that kind of person, but a lot of people I've seen on Toram are a little touchy. Some take it too seriously, but I suppose I shouldn't blame them, a great percentage of toram players atm are teenagers out on summer break.
     
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  14. Kimesato

    Kimesato Elite Member Elite Member

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    Im gonna be a douch and creep some peeps out xDD.

    SUMMER TEENAGERS!!! OH LORD JAIL BAIIIITT!!! YAHOOOOO xDDD
     
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  15. Takanori-kun

    Takanori-kun I can heal impurities Elite Member

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    This thread creeped me out when I was lurking...creeped me out even more because I get whispered a lot by G.I.R.Ls/real girls?idk
    Just me hanging out,trying to sell some stuff when I get whispered-I wanna buy you.
    ....The....fuuuuuuuu
     
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  16. Cryous

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    Who wouldn't wanna buy Oreki?
     
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    Takanori-kun I can heal impurities Elite Member

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  18. Kimesato

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    Some times, one has already manned up, but want to play around in the Intra Webs world xDDD I love the jiggles on my webcams you know xDD
     
  19. Selenite

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    To each their own I guess? I think it depends what kind of person your in a relationship with. Like if I caught my boyfriend oogling some jiggly wigglies on a cam (not that hes the type of person that would) the only thing I would be mad about is if he either didn't let me peak (out of camera so the little chickie wouldn't get scared) or at least record/screen shot it some how so I could see later. I mean who doesn't like jiggly wigglies?! A free show is a free show.

    If he was physically cheating on me via any body to body sexual interaction wise, that's a different story. I'd be pissed, it's a deal breaker.

    On the other hand though I think he still gets a little butt hurt when I watch things online so if some guy or girl was web camming me, I think he'd be hurt.

    I know people who all have different opinions about this but the only person whose opinion should matter to you is your partner's.
     
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  20. Kimesato

    Kimesato Elite Member Elite Member

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    Sele, you the sht sweety ;), I feel we speak the same vibe ;) kakakaka this is so much fun you know xD
     
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