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Party-forming trust issues

Discussion in 'Toram Online General Discussions' started by Clover, Jun 4, 2020.

  1. Clover

    Clover Well-Known Member

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    After this, I always decline party invitation when I see "yuk!"
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    I also even made a defender mercenary and -100% aggro build, It's not fun being with people like that.
     
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  2. PutuKarma

    PutuKarma Well-Known Member

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    can't blame you. Indo people tend to do as they please when they have an accomplice, and in your case being kicked without furry explanation, not to mention how most Indo people who playing toram can't/won't even talk in english compared to other country.
    I dare to say this since I am Indonesian too
     
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  3. The Lost One

    The Lost One THOT BEGONE AGENT Elite Member

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    how to not get kicked? be the leader, even if you hate it.

    Anyway, it's not new so I am used to it on how toxic people are for kicking people without explanation. Either get kicked or disband, that's the common occurrence nowadays.
     
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  4. Yunan

    Yunan Not Enough Salt Elite Member

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    I tend to avoid these people:
    -those who uses "sir", though its often not that bad as they tried to at least communicate with English
    -those who uses vulgar slangs(in indo, mostly)
    -party leaders that rushes their members to get ready
    -arbitrary kickers and those with no common etiquette
    -those who wkwkwk too much
     
  5. ★Preetam★

    ★Preetam★ Well-Known Member

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    well toxic people r everywhere so rather than arguing i just take the ss and usually just distribute it in my friend circle and ask everyone to just inv those people and kick them if my friends meet them ( just personal satisfaction but works for me )
    and as @ the lost one said most of the times i make party , tho sometimes it takes time but its worth , like yesterday i was at fins and there was this guy and no one was inv him cuz he was a support and when i invited him he turned out to too op due to which our kill time was around 1.30 min mostly , so we should get a broader perspective while playing
    *wanted to say this , dont mind it much*
     
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  6. Spanish Bread

    Spanish Bread Well-Known Member

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    common Indo toxic behavior.
    its always the common toilet break as well.

    From what I remember, there's a server dedicated for Indos only, I'm guessing very little or almost none uses that.
     
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    I actually wonder why, since most of them come to int/global to speak ONLY in indo like if it's a language spoken worldwide.
     
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  8. kariin

    kariin Patience is a Virtue Staff Member MODERATOR Super Likable Elite Member Wiki Contributor Epic Member

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    i just stay silent n mind my own business eps if they kill boss fast xD
     
  9. Unetéro Kenora

    Unetéro Kenora Well-Known Member

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    poopy people.
    I don't know how I never got in this kind of PT before. Is this common to happen?
     
  10. Red_Fox

    Red_Fox Internet Pirate Super Likable Elite Member Epic Member

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    not so common, i daresay.
    but negative memories stand out more, so in retrospect we will think it happens all the time.
     
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  11. kariin

    kariin Patience is a Virtue Staff Member MODERATOR Super Likable Elite Member Wiki Contributor Epic Member

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    it rarely happens to me. but ive been kicked b4...prolly cuz i was on my tec bs n not doin any dmg xD
     
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  12. Unetéro Kenora

    Unetéro Kenora Well-Known Member

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    Makes some sense, humans tend to be more impacted by negatives than goods.
     
  13. RyeUshio

    RyeUshio The Blue Bull Super Likable Elite Member Epic Member

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    I only talk to randoms when spoken to or if I'm in the mood for a chat

    Rarely happens to me too. Instances like being disconnected for longer than usual.

    Indeed. I can still remember last month when @Barona quickly disbanded the party after I joined and did goliath on a couple of lapins. I figured he doesn't want another brawler in his party. Quickly, I saw him lfm for finale users. Epic. ^_^
     
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    The first experience is always poopy but you slowly get used to it
     

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  15. Kaejuda

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    [​IMG]

    classic
     
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  16. SirDex

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    Don't take it too personally, indos tend to think they the only ones that exist on toram. Most of the time though this doesn't happen, so don't let this one bad experience make you feel distrust or worried about forming or joining parties. There's always going to be those few unpleasant people we come across sometimes.
    Most people are friendly and open minded and want to farm and level the same as you do and aren't worried about where you from or what your language is.
     
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    Because they want to leech lvl since finding pt is way easier in INT1
    Last time, i met an indog that have balls trying to leech on my pt in Seele Ulti, i kicked him immediately and alerted all people in there.
     
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    Its very common to find annoyances everywhere Screenshot_20200529-223852_ToramOnline.jpg
     
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