Tanks complaining because Venena touches them with her balls

I don't take aggro nowadays, but when I do, it's usually because everyone in my party died at least once (-100% aggro dps here). If I'm not using that build, I usually end up getting the aggro because of my style, and when I do, I actually want the balls to get near me because I'm still a dps with high damage- at least the builds I really focused on creating. I send Cross Fire towards the direction of pillars via the balls(at least that's my way of giving a hand to the poor plebs). When the tank wants the balls cleared and no one else does, I take the job and lose damage in the process because they'll die if I don't. If there's no other strong person in the party and alliance, that means longer runs.