Hi, finally I can play this game again :3 , but... T.T

So maybe last time when I can't enter the game is because of server being down I guess, I dunno why I tried to reinstall again this morning and I can login suddenly.. Yeah but I am having a bad day.. I whispered someone random in my friend list, I joined her pt. They were farming skeleton in zoktda ruin.. I asked them why they were farming here.. This person from my friend list said that it is a good way to make money... So I thought she would said that she would sell it to players at consignment board, but I was mistaken.. She said she would sell it to merchant at rugio ruin (She gotta be kidding me if she said that it is a way to make good spina :/) so I told her about how to get anti degradation and sell it with price 4000 spina per pieces.. So we sold ours at board and someone bought her anti degradation for 48k spina.. No one bought my anti.. I checked board for good armor.. And I found kcoat with app red dyed kimono c666 with just price of 75k spina.. My spina was only 44000.. So I asked her for 31000 spina since I was afraid someone would buy it first than me.. But she was hesitate even after I taught her some stuff and told her how to make money... So she responsed with like "3-31000 spina o.o" I said sorry to her cause maybe I was bothering her and I said I need to buy rare clothes, and I would pay her 35000 spina, I even said that I would give her something as an insurance just before she log out.. I went to minotaur place just to borrow her spina, but she was gone and someone invited me to a pt, so I joined.. After that, the leader said he got some stuff to do, and made me the leader, and after a while, I saw she went back login.. I invited her when she asked for lfp... But she didn't join the pt.. So I met her again after some battles.. And I whispered her again that I was sorry for asking it so suddenly.. She said that she was afraid if she could trust me or not (even after I told her how to make spina and she got 48k :/ and helped her farming mino with me being the tanker and she just went sniping freely or when she used her mage spells, I even taught some stuff to her about MD as a sub weapon..) So other member in my pt log out and I leaved the pt to go to sofya city with that girl.. She asked what armor I wanna buy, and I checked the board again and the armor was gone already... Oh my.. It is so cheap for being dyed, c666.. I said to her I was so sad.. I said couple of lines about what the armor was and I said just forgot it.. Then I asked her what r we gonna do now.. She replied with no feeling of guilty at all :/ she said make more money.. With this emoticon xD.. Is it that I was being the wrong here or the world was just not fair :"(...
Someone on my friend list that I asked her to farm eerie xtal with me, got xtal armor on the fourth run with me and I was farming it like 2 days already.. She didnt have any kind of intention to get the armor (she was trying to finish quest by hunting pomum for sour nut in wanderer camp) and she got it :"(
I didn't know why this game keeps making me sad.. I played it for chatting with ppl, helping newbie, and collecting armor.. But since this incident.. I dont wanna help newbie anymore.. I will just let them farming skeleton or what..
I gonna include this event in different way but conveying the same idea in my novel

 

The world is a bitter place, but don't become bitter yourself.

You can't expect others to be as nice. If you think helping others guarantees or gives them a sense of obligation to help you back, that is the wrong way to go about things.

Help others for the sake of just helping.

 

Damn man, you just have to have a positive attitude, maybe you can get a cheaper deal

 

Yeah, I know... I usually don't ask anything from others.. But when I asked, no one cares, same like in real life.. People r just there.. When u r doing good.. But when u fall down, it will never be the same

 

I never think that way, but when I need it, people just don't care.. It seems like helping people is pointless

 

I'm sorry to hear that....
Dx
Hugs.

 

So.. What I'm getting from this story is that your "friend" back stabbed you for not helping you back? Sorry if I'm acting rude, but it's hard to read long comments like this without some paragraphs.

 

It is ok if you can't read it, I just write it so I can hear other people opinion.. My classmates are not so nice... I often lent them homework when I was still at school but since our interest is different, they like shopping, hanging out, partying, but I more like things like anime, or whatever...
I almost spent my entire school life by doing all things alone and studying.. I am an introvert, I am not good at making people to care for me

 

You lend them your homework? Like gave them answers? If so, friends help each other on homework, but they don't give the answers to them.
If they like different things then how do you guys relate to each other or talk to each other? Not trying to offend you, but your friends sound spoiled.

 

They are not my friends, they are just people that were in the same classroom with me "classmate". I rarely talk with people.. I only have 2 people, that I can called my friends since we have the same interest and often talk with each other.. even tho I still can't really trust them for some reasons

 

^^ this pretty much sums up my thoughts.
Only thing I'll add is that, you can't expect a "random friend" to lend you spina. I wouldn't truely trust someone just cause of a few hours of gameplay and pointers. So this person has nothing to feel remorseful for.

 

So this is my conclusion from hearing ur guys opinion, there are no real friendship nowadays.. People are just there talking with u cause it is just a normal deed or act to do.. Spending time since the situation force us to do it same like when we were at school.. We were talking since it is just usual thing to do.. After graduated, there will be no talk again anymore.. If u don't have money.. No money no talk

 

I get that you are being nice and helping out others, but people that are truly nice and warmhearted don't expect anything back. Those people are the ones who are genuinely nice, not the ones who are nice and expect something nice in return.

This doesn't mean that being nice isn't a good thing and you shouldn't do it anymore. The appreciation of the people who you have helped is the best feeling in the world in my opinion.

Keep doing what you are doing, because I'm sure the people who you have helped have thanked you for it.
Correct me if I misunderstood the situation

 

I am not going to continue this conversation.. Since it is not going anywhere in my opinion... All people have different life and background.. So they just talk according to their life experience and their belief..

 

I'm sorry you feel that way. I know where you are coming from. And it's just like I mentioned, you're feeling bitter. You feel helpless because others don't care. That's life.

But the thing you need to take away from these experiences are: not everyone is bad, you will find others that will care for you, and you must have perseverance.

Feel like giving up? Don't.

You want us to agree to everything you say? (It's all negative)

We are all telling you the same thing; have a more positive outlook. Yet you continue to go on a path that will be self destructive because people are messed up. And they are. It's hard to find the right people to click with.

Sorry if it sounds like I'm bullying you. It's not my intention. I dont want you to dwell on such negative things.

I won't say anything more.
Damn I'm chatty today...

 

Yeah, I got it..

 

i used to be like you , lonely in real life , but then one day i watched pewdiepie"s " 5 reason not to give a sh*t " it changed my life . THE END .

ok seriously tho , i wouldnt lend my money to a stranger i just met for a few hours , i"d lend them if like we know each other for like forever and it feels just about right to lend it .ur "friend" is just scared of being scammed since theres ALOT of heartless scammers out there .

p.s u shuld really watch that video o.o , it really changed my life xD (was a shy little fkboi who is afraid to talk to people online until i saw it o.o)

 

Nice :3 I will check it