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How to deal with players that 'fall in love' with /want to 'date' you?

Discussion in 'Off-Topic' started by Lia♪, Feb 9, 2018.

  1. Hiame

    Hiame Bootleg Dual Wielder || Virtual Creator Super Likable

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    Good Question...


    Just be upfront ovo)b
    It's nice to be friendly to others but you also got to be able to stand your own ground when you don't want todo something/return their feelings.

    I usually just play along or if they are continually trying to get at me (in the annoying sense) I'll flat out just say I don't like them. Me personally I don't mind if a person "likes me" in the sense it's just playing around between just friends tho. Say a person whom you pt with for a few hours/days now and you been talking quite a bit says "I like you", or say something along the lines "Awww~ that's so cute! I like you too" pause to send message "Buddy~ <3"
    or I'll "Lol you don't even know me. What is it about me do you like? Oh is it cause I use a saxy revealing female character?"
    but if they're serious, I'll just tell them I don't like them but I like them as just a friend or just an in game friend,

    (nothing wrong with game/or net friends tho. Some of my BestFriends were just gaming/net friends at one point)

    If they give you something that's their own choice so no need to feel bad if they gave you something, just be humble/gracious/thankful
    , if they expect something in return that's their problem. You have no obligation to like them back or give them anything just cause they gave you something out of their own choice. Just depends on how your relationship is to that person, I.E You're guildmates eventually you'll either get them something back as thanks or simply they let you have something they don't need and it could be of use to you.

    TLDR: Just be upfront if you don't like them that way. If they give you something be thankful/gracious/humble.
     
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  2. Doormat

    Doormat Well-Known Member

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    I think this style is very cute.
     
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  3. Ameilla

    Ameilla Well-Known Member

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    I met my husband because of Toram :)
    We never played together in game until after we started dating though. We actually started talking because of Forums.

    We just got married Jan. 13 2018 in real life <3
    If you do some searching you can find all the posts we ever made about the whole thing, they're floating around forums somewhere.
     
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  4. Vedar777

    Vedar777 Well-Known Member

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    Mute them.

    Easy.
     
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  5. NUT2Fast

    NUT2Fast @Ameilla ‘s Husband Elite Member

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    Lol I didn’t think I’ll meet someone proud of this shit Lmaooo
     
  6. Lia♪

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    Eh, nothing wrong with being girly right?
     
  7. Rydalis Darx

    Rydalis Darx Well-Known Member

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    >:3 Im wierd and Im PROUD
     
  8. Blackfeather25

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    Hee~ simple reject in an instance , woe me on game items ? and such ? Are they nuts ? Is the chocolate in game taste sweet or the flowers can be put on my desk to view ?

    U cant even touch it lol , and its not like we cant top up ourself ;3 female are more productive than tin can men haha joke lol
     
  9. Warlord Waffle

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    "Your love in me is just as real as me"
     
  10. NUT2Fast

    NUT2Fast @Ameilla ‘s Husband Elite Member

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    God your so gay lol
     
  11. Laxus

    Laxus Well-Known Member

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    ehehehahaa ok tell me if I meet u in game like randomly and ask u that u are a girl or guy? what u answer me?
     
  12. Laxus

    Laxus Well-Known Member

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    What an amazing (+_+)girl.ya sure dunno the chocolate in game is sweet or some other taste but you are damnn right.Love in game and mainly in toram is the most useless thing,better then waste time in chatting and doing stupid emotions farm some bosses and make Spina.lol
     
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    2d is 2d
    3d is 3d
     
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    Damn. You sound like my last ex. Cold world.
     
  15. Omega EH

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    Gurll I feel you :(
     
  16. Omega EH

    Omega EH UR Empress Elite Member

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    What if they say they don't mind? I have encountered people like that...
     
  17. BK

    BK The Best Elite Burger Known To Mankind Staff Member MODERATOR Elite Member Epic Member

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    If they say they dnt mind just say u do and that u arnt gay:p
     
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  18. zero_

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    Sum hoes are just horny so they want to date online and do sexting so their boner will gone and fap asap lmaoaoaoaoaooooo
     
  19. zero_

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    Im so cute!
     
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  20. zero_

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    Im so handsome guys add me on facebook and follow me on twitter
     
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